A Story of Truth, Hope, and Healing

In "To Be Loved," Frank delves into the transformative experiences of love, acceptance, and personal growth, encouraging readers to embrace their true selves.

This book isn't just a narrative; it's an invitation to join a community that celebrates vulnerability, resilience, and the genuine connections that shape our lives. Discover how embracing authenticity can lead to profound healing and a deeper connection with those around us.

To Be Loved unveils the compelling and deeply personal journey of Dr. Frank Anderson, a renowned trauma therapist who bravely shares his own story of childhood abuse and dark family secrets for the first time. Despite his professional success and magnetic exterior, Dr. Anderson's early life was a battleground of identity struggles within a complex familial environment, marked by a longing for acceptance and a facade of a perfect life that eventually crumbled.

This revelation leads him to profound realizations about resilience, forgiveness, and the true meaning of love, transforming his narrative from one of suffering to hope. His journey offers invaluable insights for anyone seeking to overcome trauma and live authentically. The book stands as a beacon for both individuals grappling with their past and professionals in the mental health field, illuminating the path toward healing and the transformative power of truly understanding what it means to be loved.

"A harrowingly self-revealing and tenderly self-loving memoir of trauma and transformation, by Gabor’s colleague, respected psychiatrist, therapist, and teacher, Dr. Frank Anderson."

Dr. Gabor Maté

International bestselling author

"A passionate, courageous, and inspiring work."

Bessel van der Kolk

#1 New York Times bestselling author

“To Be Loved is a beautifully written and empowering story of resilience, healing, and forgiveness that offers hope for all survivors of childhood trauma.”

Nicole LePera

PhD, #1 New York Times bestselling author

“Moving and masterful! Filled with humor, empathy, and candid self-reflection, Frank’s story demonstrates the power to heal childhood trauma, develop resilience, and ultimately find love, forgiveness and restoration.”

Lori Gottlieb

New York Times bestselling author

“In To Be Loved we are inspired to reflect on how our own minds work and ways to empower ourselves to face challenging relationships with integrity, compassion, and forgiveness.”